Articles
Notes on understanding, and what comes after it.
Articles on communication, connection and conflict in relationships where ADHD plays a part. Written by Nick Jacob.
Conflict · Communication · Personal Reflections
When I Stopped Reacting, Things Got Worse
I stopped reacting and thought that would fix things. It didn’t.
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Connection · Personal Reflections
Why I Thought Love Was Something You Didn't Have to Keep Proving - Just Like a Chair
I thought love just stayed there. I treated it like a chair in a room. You don't keep checking if it's still there.
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Connection · Communication · Personal Reflections
I Had a Whole Conversation in My Head. She Got a Cuddle.
After a difficult conversation about our relationship, I went to give my partner a cuddle. I wanted the tension to end.
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Understanding ADHD · Personal Reflections
I Understood ADHD Before I Understood My Relationship
I asked my partner for an update about her health. The conversation became about the way I asked questions.
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